If you feel the welcome of your inner connection with your essence, of opening your heart to an upright mind and inner guidance, you will see that things simply take on a new meaning, do not even have to change in their form but you can see them differently, and of course, many will be reflected in the external.
If that is your feeling, there are left behind thoughts of scarcity, conditioning, limitations, victims, guilt, fears, disoriented influences, toxic relationships, disorders and other positions of an old mentality. In the now you can have in front of you feel loved by yourself, the openess to love for it is what you are in essence, express in a targeted way that love, experience freedom in that love that is in you.
I have tried to reduce the use of the word “love” in the previous topics, it is not that this text is something romantic but thanks to what I have lived I have found a distinction as well as openness for what is commonly understood with it. The distinction is that Love points to your divine essence, to a divine or enlightened love, something that is experienced in unification or integration and that brings Peace, and is never subject to manipulation, that love you seek is already in your essence, and it is from there that a sensible correspondence will come. The openness is to the use that is commonly given to this word, however, does not have to be subject to manipulation or sentimentalism, hence that in this experience is as a challenge or subject to observation that derives from a special relationship so that this type of love is also enlightened. It is not a question of being anti-romantic or a ruthless insensitive person, because that aspect of romance can have its place as an intelligent attitude towards people who are too sensitive, or accepting what you are exposed to in a romantic relationship.
The past or history can be useful to learn and thank for that learning, freeing us from any burden in this regard, which is often heard as “let go”. But it is not about eliminating memories that have left a teaching. The new generations may have a new countenance, perhaps those who have recently been born in the last 10 years will not feel the differences or changes faced by the generations at the turn of the century who were often on a tightrope.
Let us cite some examples, even in the midst of this transition, making an exercise of language in the past tense as if we were visualizing a new panorama and had transcended many aspects of our humanity and society…
I avoid dealing with other aspects, given that being in a moment of transition it is not my feeling to generate polarization by delving into a mental control or social engineering that has been exercised over the population, it is enough to observe it. This would only be an aspect from the point of view of the world, that while we are experiencing it is not about being blind, since something reflects that can be reoriented. From a higher plane we approach the forgiveness of that script, writing a new one considering that it is illuminated from every heart of good will, that is, connecting with your essence.
Without going against what masters have identified regarding the relationship between desire and suffering, the way to resolve the tendency for desire is not to turn to self-denial or repressing it. Suppressing your desires is not usually honest with yourself if you still feel you are carrying something out in your life. We are not talking here about pleasures that you may well manage in moderation and according to the awareness you have achieved in this regard.
Sometimes it can be your essence that imprints that desire to point you in the direction of something, just as it can lead you to desire Peace. Illusions about something can be motivating if you are aware that the result is something else and that it can be different from what you expected, otherwise they lead you to frustration and suffering. This is what masters such as the Buddha have identified.
As already mentioned, you can come to desire Peace, perhaps helped by the saturation of suffering. Desiring a happy world in consonance with the nature of your essence, but not necessarily in the terms of the world. Feeling worthy of the wonderful, loving, beautiful being that is in your essence can be translated as desiring to be as you are in essence, as God created you, one with source, desiring inner integration and then the dissipation of illusions.
This can be experienced thus from the level of experience as you journey through the world, while finding openness to enjoy the journey and laugh. I feel that, in a trained consciousness, it is also possible to forgive oneself the illusions, and that includes the myriad of desires for this world.
Having understood what corresponds to the essence, one can understand what one is called to love by being inclusive, and that unconditional love starts from opening oneself to self-love. But then, in the practical sense, what to do in the face of egotistical attitudes?
If you can use understanding, it would have to refer to an order, for example to consider respect for yourself, to have self-love, if you can transcend this then you could be compassionate if your intuition tells you so, or be free to express yourself and indicate what you see as necessary rather than being left with a judgment. It is not about being compassionate with what has no place in what is, the openness is that perhaps that brother asks in the background love. In those moments it is good to keep the practice of asking for light to your Inner Guide to know how to act, or listen to your intuition. Sentimentalism and disoriented generosity have nothing to do with intuition or wisdom, nor with love, unless they ultimately coincide, but one does from the fear of another from a genuine love. One way to orient yourself is by raising a question that I heard in a Teal Swan video about self-love, and it is as follows:
“What would someone who loves themselves do?” (I would add: …having recognized its essence beyond the presentation of the world)
If you’ve been through a not-so-simple process, you may have noticed that you may have come across a wall at times, a silence to your questions that seems merciless, or a labyrinth with no way out. Tell the wisdom of Life that it makes mistakes, cries or kicks. Will it become sentimental? Would it recognize something that is not in correspondence with the essence? Would you believe that the Higher Self is stupid or ruthless? And what would you gain from that? It is true that crying can discharge a little those emotions and in that sense something helps. You can also stop and ask to see things in another way.
To recognize what it is, is to open yourself to the fact that the divine essence of you and your brother rest as one in the divine filiation where there is no mess but unity, that you can have the openness to see the other as another you from the essence, or even better, to remember that what you observe with the senses is a projection and does not define you or your brother, who as long as he participates in what is you could not exclude him. In fact, we are no longer talking about individuals with their personalities where you enter the game of separation, but from the mind where you connect with unity. This can be reinterpreted as you can on the level of form and with people if necessary.
The unity of which I speak does not have to do with allying yourself with another ego or that of your brother, because it is not from the persons where unity is, however, eventually gestures of it can be seen without place to the manipulation of the ego.
In the practical sense, people can be respected, that includes you. When you consider keeping respect for yourself, someone may not feel respected in the face of conflict, as if an observation or expression on your part were an attack, evidence of ego guilt traps, and what if from another plane of perspective there is no one else?
It’s also not about taking things personally or being left with a sense of attack. Sometimes I take advantage of some technique for some emotional adjustment that I feel like attending at this level of the world, but above all I trust in the practice of forgiveness that you can develop by taking “A Course In Miracles”.
Beyond the game of manipulation, the doors open to unconditional love, and this love is first experienced with oneself, and from there it can be expressed towards others. At that point, it would correspond to the connection with your essence so that you find a Light of change and compassion for what is. Honor your individual process and the Love Guide, its purpose can lead you to see Miracles, and why not to be a carrier of Miracles.